Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

Life is filled with moments of joy and celebration, but it also comes with challenges and hardships. One of the most difficult questions we grapple with is: Why do bad things happen to good people? This question isn’t just philosophical—it’s deeply personal, especially when we face struggles or witness others enduring pain.

In Judaism, this question has been asked for thousands of years. It’s even found in the Torah and the writings of our greatest sages and prophets. Here are some insights to help you reflect on this profound and challenging topic:

1. The World Is Complex, and So Is G-d’s Plan

Judaism teaches that G-d created the world with a purpose, but as humans, we can’t always comprehend the full picture. In Isaiah, G-d says, “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, and My ways are not your ways.” (Isaiah 55:8). This reminds us that our understanding is limited, like looking at a puzzle with only a few pieces in place.

While we may not see it now, every moment—even the painful ones—fits into a greater plan that leads toward ultimate good.

2. Challenges Help Us Grow

The Torah and Jewish teachings often compare life’s struggles to refining gold. Just as gold is purified through fire, we too grow stronger, wiser, and more compassionate through challenges. Rabbi Akiva, one of the greatest sages, taught that everything G-d does is for the good, even if we can’t see it in the moment.

This doesn’t mean we have to be happy about suffering—it’s natural to feel hurt or confused. But it can inspire us to seek meaning and grow from our experiences.

3. Free Will and Responsibility

Another core teaching is that G-d gave humans free will, and with that comes the ability to make choices—for good or bad. Sometimes, the pain in the world results from people misusing this gift. Judaism calls on us to take responsibility, not only for our actions but for helping others heal when harm has been done.

4. We Are Never Alone

In moments of pain, it’s easy to feel isolated. But Judaism emphasizes that G-d is always with us. The Psalms remind us, “Even when I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me.” (Psalm 23:4). We are not alone in our struggles, and we have the support of our community, family, and faith.

5. Tikkun Olam: Repairing the World

Rather than focusing on “why” bad things happen, Judaism encourages us to ask, “What can I do about it?” Through acts of kindness, charity, and justice, we participate in tikkun olam—repairing the world. Even small actions can bring light to places of darkness, transforming pain into hope.

6. The Hope of Redemption

Our tradition is filled with the promise of redemption—a time when suffering will cease, and the world will be filled with peace and understanding. This belief in a brighter future gives us strength to keep going, even in the hardest times.

Finding Comfort and Strength

If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that it’s okay to ask for help. Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or mentor. Judaism encourages us to lean on one another and find comfort in community.

Ultimately, while we may never fully understand why bad things happen to good people, we can find meaning in our responses. By supporting one another, seeking growth, and holding onto hope, we can transform pain into purpose and help bring more light into the world.